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[quote=Anonymous]OP, get to know her first. Your relationship will then not be kickstarted by financial transactions and her gratitude. It’ll be about the two of you and what you can build between you. Then you can help with her loans after she graduates. Or if after a year or so you see she’s having to work too much while taking classes, you can revisit giving her immediate financial help. You also need to figure out how to have a relationship with her without requiring her to operate in secrecy. Why don’t you want your mother and stepfather to know? Are you afraid they’ll try to get money from you? You can help her along the way with little gifts of spending money, gift cards, and so on—the kinds of things that can be really timely when you’re a student. [/quote]
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