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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would interview at least 3-5 obstetricians; ask very probing questions and go with the one who is well informed, equally concerned about the issue, and able and willing to advocate for you (someone assertive and respected, and someone who will likely be on call when you go into labor). I would also hire an experienced doula and bring your husband as well.

I would ask around the communities you belong to for experiences and recommendations of OBs and hospitals.

Remain vigilant throughout your pregnancy, and indeed, read up on the specific risks and outcomes so you can be as informed as possible. (Diabetes complications, preeclampsia, infection/sepsis, and blood loss are four main ones that come to mind.) Once in the hospital, if you feel anything is off, DO NOT hesitate to assert yourself. I’ve had a few (white) friends be sent home with raging infections, and one developed high blood pressure during labor that was not adequately treated. All three almost died and they did not know at the time how close they were.

I have access to medical journals at work and second guess my GW OBs all the time with evidence. It drives some of them nuts but I know I get better care.

Finally, share your experience once you’re in the other side as I’m sure you’re not alone.

In terms of recommendations, if I were you, I would try to get an appointment with Dr. Macri at GWU, and ask him for recommendations of OBs, both at GWU and elsewhere. He is absolutely top notch and a concerned global citizen. Could not recommend him highly enough, though he may be difficult to get in to see.[/quote]

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