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[quote=Anonymous]These are quite young kids.  It's possible the mom is really stressed and having a hard time coping (hence not chasing after them and feeling she really needs to sit there and smoke for a break).

I think the most constructive thing would be to try to engage with her and with the kids in a friendly way.  Be clear with the kids on what they are not allowed to do, but then ask the mom if you can engage with them in a productive way - "Hi there!  Seems like the kids have a lot of energy.  Would it be okay if I got out some sidewalk chalk and we drew some pictures on my driveway?" or "I have a fun toy a friend left here.  Would it be okay if I brought it out to show them?  They're welcome to play with it in my front yard."

As other PPs have said, offer to help the mom.  Ask if you can pick up some diapers or anything else small she needs if you're on your way out to the grocery store anyway, etc.  Two kids this young and pregnant with another is exhausting.

The only way you're going to have a hope of improving the situation is if you get to know them and provide some support for the kids and mom.[/quote]

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