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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I definitely find the whole “I need alone time to wish them farewell” a bit on then strange side. [/quote]
I don’t want to go into defining details, but there is a reason they are going away for two months. It’s important to me to spend quality time with them at this tome.

But, I know it’s selfish. I guess I need to hear it.[/quote]

If it's that important, you should stay with them this weekend. You're stretched too thin and complaining. Why don't you make an executive decision and stick to it? Accept that it won't make everyone happy.

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So the husband will be upset.

If the ILs don’t come:
They don’t even know they are missing out. They aren’t affected at all.

If OP stays home on the weekend:
DH will be upset.

If OP goes on the weekend and invites all grands:
OP will be upset.

If OP invites only her parents and keeps plans with DH on the weekend:
Everyone is happy

Why not please the DH and please the OP? It’s a win-win, both are happy, and the ILs don’t know they are missing anything. I don’t see the issue, can anyone elaborate? [/quote]

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