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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I asked him if he had feelings for me so it was not anything offensive. I just felt crazy at that point because he was acting romantic before and he showed his real colors and intention after the sex. I did regret asking and it was crazy I did but I dont think it was something I need to apologize?

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You said in the OP that you had sex just once--did I read that right?

So: He "acted romantic." That got you into bed. Then after he had sex with you, "he showed his real colors and intention" by making an extremely hurtful comment to you. And he has neither tried to talk you into sex again nor has he brought up your "do you have feelings for me" comment. Is that right?

It's clear but you're not seeing it. He wanted sex, not a relationship, and never was romantic or had feelings but played a role just long enough to get you into bed once and he's done. He hoped the comment he made would drive you away. That's immature of him but it's also immature to ghost people so be the adult at last and text him that you and he want different things so you're checking out and won't be in touch. Then block him.

Please think about why you fell for his BS. Don't mistake sex for love or lust for "feelings." Maybe take some time off dating to consider whether your radar for guts is not working. [/quote]

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