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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's great. [b] I felt strongly that any girls I had would have family names from my side of the family.[/b] And actually, I would have held my DH to that if we'd had more than 1 boy too. He only had any sort of naming "right" on the first boy. After that, all my family. Why? I changed my last name and the kids have that last name, so I get the rest of the names. [/quote] How totally sexist. [b]All family names came from my side since we all have his last name.[/b] One of my sons has my mom's maiden name as his middle name. The other has my dad's name as his middle.[/quote] DP How is this sexist? You are doing the exact same thing! Except for the eldest boy.. Op: To answer your question. Using your first name as middle name is fine. I have cousins named after the father and the mother as first names! [/quote] Sexist because the girls would have names from her family, but not the boys.[/quote] I'm the first PP quoted. I conceded on the first boy having my DH's name as a middle because he wanted it to be his FIRST name and I did not want that at all. So I compromised with the middle. If we'd had more than 2 children (we did not) he would have only had the oldest boy from his side. We only had two, so it was split. If we'd have two girls, I would have had both middle names. Sure if I was re-doing things maybe I would have fought harder to have my DS' middle come from my side, but I was just happy to not have three living males with the same firstname lastname combo.[/quote]
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