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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son gets very defensive, and when he’s feeling guilty or angry, he often defaults to “you don’t love me as much as sister”. It’s absurd and not true at ALL. We love both kids equally, spend equal time with them and always have. So just because this sister says it doesn’t mean it’s true, just that’s how she perceives things. She could also be testing you. Testing your love. What I would say is “oh wow, that memory must hurt. I don’t remember doing that and I would never intentionally hurt you. I love you SO much and I always will. What do you need from me right now? Let’s keep talking about this. And thank you for telling me, that must have been hard.”[/quote] Why would you tell the child that your don’t remember doing that if she did do that? Makes no sense... [/quote]
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