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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t take it personal.  You weren’t in a serious relationship yet and he lost interest.  There doesn’t need to be a conversation about why he has lost interest and why he doesn’t want to talk to you.  Maybe he doesn’t even have a concrete reason to tell you.  It doesn’t make him a jerk, asshole, or something else derogatory.  Be yourself, love yourself.  Repeat this: over, next. [/quote]

Actually leading someone on is the very definition of being an asshole. And women like you willing to excuse poor behavior are the reason so many men think ghosting is okay.

The last part of your post I agree with.[/quote]

They weren’t in a relationship.  At least, it doesn’t sound like they went on more than a couple dates. They were talking frequently and getting to know each other.  At some point you either make a relationship out of it or you don’t.  You shouldn’t want or need an explanation for why he lost interest. A week of not hearing from him is enough.  Would she feel better if he had sent a text and said, “Im sorry but I won’t be talking to you again because...(insert a truthful reason about what they don’t like about you or why they find someone else superior to you). I don’t think it would matter or feel better.  If they had been dating exclusively for months and talking about moving in together, getting engaged, etc. that is different.  But a couple dates and some phone calls does not require or need explanation if someone isn’t feeling it anymore.  [/quote]

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