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[quote=Anonymous]The proposing part rubs me the less the wrong way than the ring. The need for one party to prove they are worth love by how expensive of a ring they bought is so sexist and old. It is mostly perpetuated by diamond companies. Let me hold this piece of jewelry out in front of me so you can appraise its worth and determine if I spent enough money on you to be allowed to be part of your life. As soon as I see fawning over a ring or connecting the guy to the ring (what a great catch, looks like you found a good one, oh he treats you right etc) I lose all respect for that woman. In this day and age, I don't think either party should sit pining, waiting for a proposal. I have zero empathy for women who sit waiting for years. Have a conversation about whether or not you want to be together, make that decision together. If someone wants the tradition of mouthing the words, will you marry me - then go for it.[/quote]
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