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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going to join in with prior poster and say trust your gut. The fact that she is a nice person, volunteers, etc. is not at all connected to whether she could have a crush on your husband. The woman who had an emotional affair with my husband was very friendly to us both and wanted me to join her book group six months before. Hell she invited me to lunch a year before (and I went!) Trust your gut, tell him how you feel.[/quote]

Ok let's just say for the sake of argument she has a small crush on OP's husband. Or he on her, which is WAY more likely. This happens ALL the time. People develop little tiny crushes on people they work with or see regularly and that doesn't mean anything ever comes of it. I have a coworker with whom I'm very friendly, there's probably mild flirtation from time to time in a very innocuous way, and I can say it would never ever ever go anywhere beyond that. I enjoy the colleague's personality, we have a great rapport and work well together, but I could not be less interested in leaving or tanking my marriage or engaging in subterfuge and extramarital drama or taking on the burdens of what would be left from two demolished relationships assuming we both left our partners. Like, no way is any of that ever going to be my problem. I just enjoy talking and joking around with the person, they clearly feel the same, so you could call it a crush but there is ZERO threat to either relationship even if it exists. [/quote]

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