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[quote=Anonymous]I had a c-section (not elective) and while it didn't hurt in the moment, it hurt like hell after they took the morphine away and replaced it with just Percocet. I am a single mom and I wasn't allowed to have my baby in my room at the hospital unless I had another adult there (complications due to pre-eclampsia and HELLP). I was hooked up to IVs and a catheter. I could barely shift around in bed let alone get out of bed to care for a newborn. I also didn't BF because I was in pain and needed a transfusion. People visited and said I looked drained. No kidding! Blood gushed out of my body during surgery (low platelets) and my son was dripping in blood when they held him up for me to look ("Don't worry! That's your blood, not his" is what the doctors said. Um, okay. I didn't keep him in my room when we got home from the hospital because why would I? I wasn't breastfeeding so no need for us to share a room or a bed. My neighbor's daughter died the year before from being rolled over by her mother in bed after she fell asleep during breastfeeding. No thanks. People have their reasons.[/quote]
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