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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't want experience labor - you want pain killers, or a scheduled induction, or an elective c-section (even when it's not medically necessary). You don't want to care for your newborn her first night outside your body - you send her to the nursery. You don't want to breastfeed - you resort to formula at the first opportunity. You don't want to help your baby adjust by letting her sleep in the same room as you. What part of having a baby DO you want??
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With my first kid, I had an actually emergency c-section (like doctors running through the hallways) and ended up on a mag drip for 24 hours. I couldn't hold my baby without someone else in the room. My DH had to leave for 3 hours to deal with logistical stuff (since the whole thing happened very suddenly) and I had to sit in my room with my baby screaming in its bassinet because the hospital didn't have a nursery and no nurse would come no matter how many times I rang the call button. Yup, I would have loved for someone else to care for my baby in a nursery or feed it formula. Obviously that means I didn't want my kid.[/quote]

It seems like the OP can't visualize any other experience than the one they had. There are reasons for all those options being available, and I am so sorry where you had your baby didn't have those. [/quote]

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