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[quote=Anonymous]He likely could be diagnosed, but it's not your job to diagnose him or push him to seek one. Please realize, though, that if you go back to work this arrangement you currently have will fall apart. I strongly recommend marriage counseling, probably just in general and definitely to discuss division of labor if you go back to work. For example, you need to agree on a couple what activities the kids will do, what housework is important and who does it, etc. You are a team, and if he wants to scale back his financial contribution -- which is totally reasonable -- that needs to be part of a team effort in which he steps up in other areas. He doesn't just scale back his work and garden while you do everything around the house. I am married to someone who is similar in some ways, likely diagnosable but generally presents as a man-child. Marriage counseling helped. Good luck.[/quote]
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