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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a 45 year old woman who has also found it difficult to meet guys within 4-5 years of my age, both older and younger.  I either attract the mid-30’s to early 40’s or the 50+.  And I was online.  I think the mid-40’s guys tend to date down, the mid-30’s guys tend to date up and the 50+ guys also try to date down.  Can’t figure it out.  Settled with my current 41 year old which is about as close to my age as I have found.  Don’t discount the younger men, they’re tons of fun!  [/quote]

OP here; thanks for sharing. My last boyfriend was 40 but we broke up bc he wanted to get married and I didn’t. Similar story with BF before that.[/quote]

I’m the PP and that’s the biggest problem with the younger guys.  They either want to get married or they have younger children (at 45 I have high school age teenagers).  I’m looking at an empty nest in a few years and the freedom that comes along with that.  I’m not interested in raising young children.

And for the guy whose 48-51 year old male friends looking for 35-40 year old women, that’s what I see as a 45 year old woman.  All the guys near my agre go way younger.  I understand why.  But I’d still prefer someone closer to my own age due to being in similar places in life.  My 47 year old ex married a 39 year old.  Not a huge age difference but still shows how the men his age date.[/quote]

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