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[quote=Anonymous]Is his mom the hovering / doting kind? Like she will make his favorite meal for this weekend and ask him if he needs drink refills? And let him sit and veg in front of the tv while the women do the dishes? If the answer is yes, then your husband is not putting his mother’s feelings before yours. He is putting his own. He is, consciously or not, sending a message that he is tired and drained and needs to be pampered (you do too by the way.) it is ok to feel like that and I wonder if he thinks the weekend at home will be filled with “to-do” lists and massive cooking and not a lot of solo down time. Talk to him. Ask him what his dream weekend would look like. Does he want an hour by the tv with people bringing him food snacks and refills? He can get that. Then, you also get an hour of your dream. See if you can make traction using th weekend to connect.[/quote]
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