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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd sit him down and have him read this post. As long as he's aware that you feel this way I think it's totally fine. After you fail to remind him a few times he will either step up to the plate or not. I have done this previously to some extent. My husband is better now that our kids are older, but when they were younger it saved my sanity. [/quote] I'd be tempted to try this since unlike my workaholic husband, yours doesn't also have ADHD like mine. So it really is a 3rd child who forgets things, comes home sapped of energy, is constantly distracted, and argues when he messes stuff up. But generally, you and him both have to be OK with him being a tag-along spouse, always trying to keep up. Obama's had the same dynamic, Barak was left in the dust on the homefront, girls, school, vacations, etc. in order to focus on work in Chicago and later in DC. Make sure your kids have their heads screwed on straight. [/quote]
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