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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t tell him, but I most certainly show him. I’m super friendly to other men in front of him, and cold as ice to him. For example- friendly to guy walking his dog by the house, friendly to checkout guy at Whole Foods, chit chat with another dad at soccer practice, etc. I don’t let DH touch me and I don’t answer his questions. I can’t help it it’s just what I do. How do I change? I don’t want to be a passive aggressive jerk but sometimes he hurts my feelings so much I can’t speak. I can only do mean things to him such as decline to communicate or be warm. Why, what is wrong with me???

Help me not sabotage my new marriage. [/quote]

You speak, even if it's just to say that you can't talk to him right now.

"Bob, I'm really mad and I can't talk to you right now.  I need some time to cool off."  Then go cool off so you can talk about it.

The silent treatment is obnoxious and immature, and flirting with other men in front of him is pathetic and likely to make things worse.  [/quote]

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