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[quote=Anonymous]There are a lot of questions.  Why isn't your relationship considered "serious" now?  When he says that he wants a "serious" relationship, what does he mean?  Does he mean "exclusive," which would meant that it's not now?  Or does he mean that you should see each other more often?  In any event, I agree with other posters that you should not introduce him to your kid until you have both a better idea of what he means and have a sense that he will be in your life for a while.  It may be the case that he doesn't really know what he does and does not want, having not been in a serious relationship before.  It's fine for you and him to experiment with that, but I would advise you not to introduce your kid to him until that experimentation is done.

Signed -- a single dad that did not introduce my son to my (now) fiancé until we had dated a year and it was clear that our relationship was serious, even though we weren't living together yet.  (That was 18 months ago.  Now that we're engaged, we have plans to live together.)[/quote]

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