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[quote=Anonymous]I appreciate that you're being thoughtful about approaching him and dealing with this rather than complaining about his depression. I'm depressed. I've been my entire life. Some days, everything is dark and gloomy and nothing will be OK, and others, I'm ready to fight the day. I think letting him know you're there, is invaluable. Another note, I also had an abusive childhood, and through it learned I'm unlovable and no one will stay. My default actions during the darkest days is to push everyone away. I usually do it by being too much. And then when they leave, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Maybe he's subconsciously trying to push you away too, because that's what he knows. [/quote]
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