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[quote=Anonymous]With kids, of course it’s not as simple as just “divorce.” However, even WITH kids, everyone has a right to be happy. I don’t agree with being a complete martyr and sacrificing a good happy life just because you pumped a baby out of your vagina. I don’t comprehend why so many people refuse to allow themselves to be happy. No life is going to be perfect and there’s no way to predict if staying in a miserable marriage will have a better or worse effect on your kids.

If you’re not married and you gave it a shot, and really tried, then you REALLY should move on. I’ve been there. No human deserves to lay in bed at night thinking “50 more years of this?” Divorce was scary to me but years later I am a happier person, going out on my own and figuring out my new normal with housing and finances was scary, but I did it, and in the end I’m happier because it made me a stronger person and I am not afraid to stand up for myself anymore.

Sure, everyone should try. Get counseling first. Talk it out. Separate for awhile. But don’t count out a happy life for yourself. [/quote]

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