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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tough one. Just spread me and let him do his thing. Maybe fantasize about him being someone else. You have a crappy life. [/quote]

Go away-
Don’t you get it? She is in an abusive relationship. No husband or wife is “owed” sex and no person should have sex if they don’t want to, for whatever reason.
Go to counseling.[/quote]

I'm concerned[b] why she thinks she's obligated to still have sex with this creep[/b]. If he's unwilling to get help or change her priority should be to get out of there. Good communication and respect will improve a marriage. Doesn't sound like this guy will change and OP married the wrong guy. [/quote]

She is married to him. Sex is one of the things that happens in marriage.[/quote]

Not when one partner is emotionally abusing the other. Sex is not owed, married or not.

OP don't have sex with him. Start thinking of ways to save more money. One of my friends was in a similar position, he was an abusive cheater.  She would buy groceries then choose the cash back option. She also sold some of his stuff he wouldn't miss, tools, sports equipment, etc.  I'm afraid if he does treat you nice for awhile he go right back to his old ways. He won't change. You married a mean person, but can have a much better life.[/quote]

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