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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The observation above, is why women on average I think have so many weird interactions on online dating.

The men aren't on average weird, but any given normal guy is going to filter you out for being too tall, too short, too religious, not religious enough, too smart, too dumb, etc. So you'll only interact with the smaller percentage of normal guys for whom you're a good fit.

The weird/predatory/too old guys are casting a wide net and messaging everyone so more women interact with them relative to their numbers.[/quote]

Nah. Men in OLD don't have very picky filters. All men are spamming every woman who isn't a total beast. The whole point of OLD is that it doesn't take much time or effort to approach, so men will message as many women as possible.

Of course, women define guys they are not attracted to (which is most guys) as weird / creepy / predatory, and therefore they put a lot of perfectly nice, normal guys in the weird / creepy / predatory box.[/quote]

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