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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you find it in you to have sex when your spouse has been treating you terribly and the resentment is building? I'm thinking of leaving him, but our children are very young and it would take a couple of years for me to plan and execute. But, if the marriage were to improve during that time I would stay. Currently, I can't bring myself to be intimate at all. Is there a way? [/quote] Sex is the least of your concerns! Who cares what his needs are. If he won't make changes to stop the abuse or go to couples counseling it's a done deal. Start the planning stage. OP the minute he starts his abuse tirade walk out of the room or go somewhere. Abusers hate when their victims take all the control away from them. That will help you in the next few years. Tell him the truth OP. If the abuse continues you have zero plans to have sex with him. [/quote]
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