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[quote]How long were DH and his wife divorced before you met DH and started dating? Was there any overlap?

How long after the divorce did the kids meet you? 
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The kids have known me for many years,  long before their parents divorced.  We didn't have a close relationship,  but I've been to their birthday parties since they were toddlers and they've been playing with my kids for years.  It isn't like I suddenly appeared in their life as a stranger.

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That’s actually much worse, OP.  Can you not see that?[/quote]

Oh my.  If you’ve been to birthday party and they’ve been playing with your kids for years that means either you were good friends with their mom, good friends with the dad or related to the mom.  With them just finishing a year of therapy post divorce than means there was no time between divorce and remarriage.  I’m also doubting you started dating once the divorce was final.  Then throw on a custody schedule where you get one week without any kids and they share their father’s time with 3 other kids and step mom (so maybe 50% or the 50%) - Yikes.[/quote]

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