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[quote=Anonymous]Woman here and I think being Indian might have something to do with it. It’s hard enough to get dates and some might - rightly or wrongly - think that you follow more traditional rituals when it comes to dating. As you know, arranged marriages or ‘casual but purposeful’ family introductions are still much the norm coupled with perceived religious differences can make some simply not attempt. It’s not racial as much as uninformed. Are you open to all? Does it matter if your partner is Indian? If not, than being more proactive in the meet and greet - online dating, being set up by friends, etc. can be helpful. Meet up groups with activities or interests specific to singles is another avenue.

As for your looks - you don’t sound hideous and you’re thin. So really you sound plain - maybe boring. Lip gloss, eyeliner and some mascara shouldn’t cause your skin too much havoc and in areas that you can jazz it up - clothes, glasses style, even jewelry can really frame your personality in a way to make you appealing and interesting - not sexy but maybe, say - spunky, interesting, fun, pretty or whatever. You can decide honestly if glasses or contacts are better for physical features and go with that. Best accessory always being a sincere smile with clean teeth.

Lastly if your approach if confusing guys, change your approach. Be more clear in intent - practice with yourself and learn better flirting techniques. Work on your marketing of yourself as a date option.

Good luck!

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