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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He can't figure out why I'm so mad. We always do something together - go for a walk, hike, etc. Last night I saw an area bike ride with a whole bunch of folks Thanksgiving morning and asked if he'd be interested. No, he said because he's already playing golf that morning with a group of folks. I knew nothing about this, and I'm really pissed. If I tried to pull something like this heads would roll and I would never hear the end of it. [b]I get "shouldn't we have talked about this" for waaaaay less than a holiday morning.[/b] But it's a holiday and he's choosing to spend the whole morning off doing something without me. While I get dinner ready for his friends we're hosting, but that's a different story.

How bad is this? How would you deal with this?? It's not like I can tell him not to go, but damn, this really hurt my feelings, but it seems my feelings don't matter.[/quote]

It wouldn't bother me because my DH and I do stuff alone or with our separate friends all the time.  It would bother me that he didn't tell me in advance or run it by me, it's hard to coordinate holiday schedules.

But it should bother you for the reason bolded.  What's good for the goose is good for the gander and if he gives you a hard time for planning things without his input he shouldn't be doing the same to you.[/quote]

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