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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry OP this sounds really difficult - from someone who's xDH left after having an EA. What was the outcome of that discovery? I'm assuming if it was years ago you've worked really hard at putting the marriage back together. Do you feel like he was really committed to that effort? Either way, so disheartening to find out that he's likely now engaging in a physical affair (and yes, I would agree that this is cheating). In terms of immediate actions, I would try to confirm (somehow, if you can), that he actually followed through with the massage thing. From there, get your ducks in a row, and honestly, I would start preparing to leave. I'm sorry to say that as I really tried to stick it out with my first marriage, but you don't deserve to go through this again, and honestly, it's better to be alone and not living with the betrayal of this. For me it was just so devastating. Good luck to you![/quote]
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