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Reply to "reality check please - husband who sometimes forgets to lock the front door at night"
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[quote=Anonymous]Have you tried talking to him when it is NOT related to him leaving the door unlocked? Like maybe at breakfast after he has locked it several days ina row, day “I just wanted to say thank you. You know it makes me feel much better to have the door locked. I worry about our safety and have heard some stories in the new about break ins. So, I really appreciate the effort you go through to make me feel safer and make sure the door is locked.” This gives him credit for doing the right thing, explains your reasoning for why you want it at a time when he can’t feel defensive because you are thanking not criticizing, and you remind him to lock the door.[/quote]
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