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Reply to "My head and my heart can’t agree on 50/50 custody"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In your shoes I would stipulate that you agree to 50/50 as long as you have a fixed date to review and modify custody if it’s not working out. Maybe 2-6 months? It’s much easier if he agrees upfront. Document everything. If he’s not doing 50% of doctors/dentists/carpools/etc ask for an appropriate modification. You’ll have a much stronger case and you will look really reasonable if you say “Look, I agreed to 50/50 but he’s asking me to cover for him several times a week- let’s change custody to reflect our reality.”[/quote] Who decides whether or not it's "not working out"? Obviously he's not going to agree that the OP should decide it. And the OP does not want to spend money to go to court to have the court decide.[/quote]
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