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[quote=Anonymous]Married almost 19 years, and I also hated my wedding.
- My group of friends had a huge falling out and were not speaking to each other, so I had difficulty finding bridesmaids.
- I wanted a very small wedding (10 people and brunch) but a much larger one with a formal reception was forced on my by my husband's family.  I was young and didn't say no.
- It was mostly my husband's distant relatives, whom I can never keep straight to this day.
- My FIL-to-be tried to invite his then-mistress (now wife).
- My SIL-to-be and mother both got drunk at the rehearsal dinner and I ended up driving them home as they vomited.  My mom was nauseated the entire day of the wedding.
- My parents were also long divorced and avoiding each other.
- I wore much more makeup than usual because my chin was breaking out from stress, and my foundation somehow did not match my neck (it was white).
- My husband viewed it as a chance to hang out with his friends at the reception smoking cigars, leaving me to deal with his confusing relatives alone.  I felt neglected.
- I was so busy taking care of everyone else in my dysfunctional family that no one took care of me on *my* day.

All that said, the marriage has been wonderful.
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