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Reply to "Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex"
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[quote=Anonymous]You cannot have a succesful marriage if you are afraid to hurt his feelings. You should try not to hurt his feelings if you can help it, but you have to be able to be honest about big issues. The only thing to do here is to have many painful conversations. In therapy is a good place to do this. There is NO reason you should always have to have sex on his terms, but it sounds like every aspect of your relationship happens on his terms or not at all. That is a major sign of abuse. It sounds like he is manupulative and has used his anger as a threat to keep you from questioning him or calling him on his BS. Sex, like all aspects of marriage, ahould be a partnership where both people are working hard to make sure their partner is getting what they need and want. Sounds like right now, you and your husband are working toward the goal of what HE wants and what you want isn’t even on the map.[/quote]
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