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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Are those my only options- stay home or go and don't get to help plan Christmas? I'm genuinely curious. [/quote] Well maybe haha. That entirely depends on your DH's family. But I think I'd tell DH the things you'd like to do that are most important (ex: cookies for Santa). Then bring a special plate and mug with you and just DO IT. If there's something else, like you always have nachos on Xmas Eve and they always have a fancy roast beef, I'd look for other things. Do you want to go look at Xmas lights while they want to watch football? Great! You can do both. Just bundle your kids up and take them to see the lights. But if your DH's family is ignoring Santa and you have three little kids, I'd re-evaluate why you go there every year. Can you stay home and go to their house on the 26th? The main thing is getting your DH on board for the things you want to change. Then seeing how receptive your inlaws are.[/quote]
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