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[quote=Anonymous]OP - if the inflexibility feels like you are being shut out then do look at having your holidays at home but I would certainly tell them why you are making that choice. My ILs didn't have 'Santa' as part of their traditions (and its not because they were instead all Jesus centered instead: just kind of parsimonious and did barest of minimum.) After first year we didn't celebrate at their house and they and any other family that side was invited to our house. Like you we were also at least for a long time only ones with kids so they were the draw. Also - I would never put myself in a position where I would say what I would like to add (not supplant) to holidays if I thought I would then be ridiculed or grudgingly accommodated.[/quote]
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