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[quote=Anonymous]Cutting off contact with OW will just make him want her more. Go out with her in a group and see how skeevy you really feel (or not). Is it just fantasy? Maybe you’ll feel differently once you allow yourself to get a little closer to the line.

OP- you said you have kids, how would you feel explaining this to them? Do you have daughters? How would you feel if they got treated that way? If you have sons, would you advise them to do the same? Is OW worth losing the respect of your kids or possibly causing them future  issues (bc you will, immediately or later in life)

You should have a candid convo with DW about your feelings, especially since she seems unhappy too. If you both fell out of love but don’t want to get a divorce, at least you know you’re on the same page and can move forward accordingly.

Since you said you don’t want to break up your family (as opposed to not wanting DW to get your money) I have a feeling your loyalty to your family will triumph over this little crush you have. . 
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