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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think I am selfish for not bing able to mind read?[/quote] It's not mind-reading, it's basic social skills and the ability to see outside of yourself. When people are going through a tough time, they tend to withdraw. That's not a "your friend" thing, that's a "most people" thing. Just because they're withdrawing, though, doesn't mean they don't need support, which includes their friends reaching out to them regularly even when they're not as responsive as usual. Again, that's not a "your friend" thing, it's a "most people" thing. You dropped the ball with your friend because you either don't have the social skills to understand what you should have done, or because you were too self-absorbed to consider what you could/should do for her as a friend. Either way, that's on you, not her.[/quote]
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