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[quote=mselmer][quote=Anonymous]I would kindly text him, letting him know that you have changed your mind about the date.

Tell him you also think it best to no longer communicate & wish him all the best.

Then never communicate w/him again.
Ever.[/quote]

I'm the OP. I realize I made a terrible mistake with my actions that night. It was impulsive and dangerous. I was drunk, and I've been horny and lonely for years but especially since I broke up with my BF last October, who I on;y dated for 5 months. I'm almost always single. I could never ghost someone. I aim to treat people the way I want to be treated. I think he deserves the respect of me informing him that I'm canceling our date. So I sent him a text hours ago stating "I changed my mind about the date. I can't communicate with you anymore. I wish you all the best." He replied soon after, "ok".

Then I made an appt with my doctor for STD testing next week. I should get my period in about 6 days (I use a phone app to chart my period to avoid pregnancy, and use condoms).

Now 7 hours later, he's texting me asking why I have a change of heart when things started off so great. He was probably shocked earlier and is now confused. I don't want to hurt or insult him by bringing up that I know about his drug addiction/arrests. I don't know if he's still using heroin, but he's drinking alcohol, which is a bad sign. I once read that only 10% of heroin addicts fully recover. I do not want to form a relationship with someone with a drug history, especially a longtime problem with heroin.

What should I do?[/quote]

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