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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am so sorry that you and your kids are having to go through this. I don't know what you could do. Sooner or later the kids will notice that dad is just not that interested. It's important that your DH be able to express himself and tell you how he feels, but I'm a strong believer that the more you say something the more true it becomes. By that I don't mean brush it under the rug. Absolutely not! But the reality is that he DOES have two children who need him and love him and he needs to grow up and be the father to them. "Letting him do" what ever he wants to do is not the answer. I think spending MORE time with the kids so that he has a unique relationship with each of them is probably more likely to result in a good outcome. WE all feel like the kids are running our lives occasionaly and that we'll never be able to do this or that, but I think what you're describing is more than that. [/quote]
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