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[quote=Anonymous]OP again - I repeat, not Chinese food lady :) I haven’t seen that thread - where is it? Just to clarify a few things, I’m doing day to day things, I work, do all meal planning, shopping and cooking for 3 meals a day, still do 90 percent of kid appts, activity sign ups, paperwork, organize play dates, bday presents, etc...my interactions with my kids are not  too impacted although I’m sure there are times my energy level is lower than normal.

I think the disconnect is that I am trying hard and have made progress but I’ve felt like DH expects a total 180 recovery at all times. He has complained about having to pick up some slack around the house/with the kids and that’s been frustrating for me because I don’t feel like I’m getting credit for doing what I am doing despite the challenges and I guess I’ve felt like it’s not unreasonable to ask him to take a few things off my plate like looking into soccer registration or whatever.

I think DH intellectually understands the idea of a mental health issue but he doesn’t really understand it emotionally. He thinks I can turn it off if I really want to, or at least he partially thinks it. Anyway, we talked and I am feeling better about things. I was in a low moment when I posted.[/quote]

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