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[quote=Anonymous]the issue is not "when is the least worst time to split up' from the kid's perspective. It is that you would be, you fear, unleashing a torrent of instability, anger, and ugliness that would scar them, possibly for the long term. I guess, barring some change in him, you should do what a PP suggested. Start methodically and carefully planning for your future. Pour the money into college funds and trusts but definitely do so with a lawyer because trusts are not always exempt from being considered as marital asset in a divorce. what else can you do? surround your kids with loving, strong adults outside of you, family or friends who can be there for them if/when things are bad. document anything violent, manipulative or abusive. Do you have a therapist? how do you manage the day to day? [/quote]
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