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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gee guys, such snarky responses on here.
Not the OP.

OP - I think you are just feeling good that you were hit on because it is always nice to feel that other people think you are desirable.

Maybe you do not feel this w/your husband.
Who knows??

Since both you + “Greg” are more than spoken for, it is best for you to forget this guy altogether.
He made a flirty comment to you.
Not cool. At all.

But it WAS a comment & that’s all.
Please do not make it more.[/quote]

Op here. Thanks. I was not expecting the number of vicious comments. For the record, I'm not attention starved. My husband paws at me plenty and I've been hit on before but it's been more traditional (eating alone on work travel, on a plane or by a jerk I know through work. I love DH and other than the normal patterns people fall into, things are good. After time, you know what each other likes, so sex becomes a routine, almost rehearsed with the exception of that occasional wild hair that strikes.

What has this so much on my mind is the boldness of the setting and the suggestion and the nature of the suggestion. I think part of me is wondering if i discovered I'm a closet exhibitionist or voyeur in my mid 40s or am I finding this exciting because it's new as in an area I haven't explored?  It's as much about the suggestion as it is anything. What puzzles me about it is it part of the reason I was initially offended is that saying that struck me as childish. How could he think that would possibly work? Instead, it's like he planted a seed.

Thanks to those that gave helpful advice.[/quote]

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