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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you tell the therapist this? It's not healthy for your wife to do this. Not for her, especially. It's good you aren't engaging with the ex affair partner. But I would tell the therapist. Not in an accusatory way. But more, I really want this marriage to work, but this is happening right now and makes it seem we have no shot at recovery. What should I do, if anything? [/quote] The reaching out to the affair partner may not be healthy but her lashing out is COMPLETELY NORMAL given the circumstances. She has experienced a trauma. [/quote] I do understand that. That’s why the therapist should be involved to give guidance to both. [/quote] Oh please. He cheated and got caught. A therapist is a penance to get him out of jail. I feel bad for you OP, but just hope this former AP doesn't say too much. Either way I'll never understand why someone risks everything for some side loser. You have to take your medicine now. I would continue to ignore that OW.[/quote]
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