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[quote=Anonymous]Regardless of if he’s not into you or maybe gay, you are just mismatched. You need to find someone who is more physically affectionate and one of his love languages is words. This is not the guy for you.

And I agree with PP about how difficult children are to a marriage. DH and I adore each other. Get along well. Speak the same love languages. And having a toddler is really stressful to the relationship. We adore DS and he’s the light of our life. But we are tired and cranky and sometimes take it out on each other. If we didn’t have such a strong foundation, there is a good chance the marriage would snap and break.

Do not marry this guy!! Don’t think “Well he must love me if he wants to marry me. I guess I should marry him.”  He might not love you (or at least not love you the way you need to be loved). He might just be ticking off boxes. And you were the least annoying woman he could stand who his family also approves of. So ding-ding, you win the marriage ticket. It’s more of a business transaction than a loving marriage.

And the dirty little secret that no one talks about is that behind all those happy, un-divorced couples in his family are lots and lots of affairs. But the women stay silent and have their soul slowly crushed “for the sake of the family”. [/quote]

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