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[quote=grace4ever]Thank you for sharing your thoughts and concerns with us. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. There is always hope even in the most difficult moments. Have you ever heard of the phrase:” When the person gets married bring their own luggage”? That does mean that we bring wounds from our own families. Have you considered to dialogue in asking him why he behaves in that way? I encourage you to open your heart to dialogue with him and both can talk about your feelings. Therapy or counseling works through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth of fighting for. Therapy will help you both overcome what is causing this confrontation.. Have you considered to forgive him? Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right but means that you let the problem go. Forgiveness is the first step of change and healing. There’s no perfect persons, so there’s no perfect marriage. However there’s brave couples who are able to fight for their relationship and together seek for help outside through therapy or marriage counseling. I encourage you both to take this an opportunity to be aware that marriage always has its ups and downs. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend – Keep us posted, Ok? [/quote]
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