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Reply to "I need to sleep alone. Reason for divorce?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, honestly I've never had a really strong libido and even pre-kids 1x/week was enough for me. (And DH knew this.) Does that mean I should not have gotten married (to anyone)? Don't people vary a lot in their sex drive? [/quote] Maybe but a partner being uninterested in sex is perfectly acceptable reason for the other partner (male OR female) to step out. First to separate bedrooms, then 'I need a work apartment for the long hours', then trial separation, then divorce. To be perfectly honest - if you're not going to have sex with someone why tie them down for 20 years?[/quote] DH and I have a very active sex life, but we aren’t “tied down” just to have sex. Nor do we view regular sex with each other as compensation for being “tied down”. We love each other. We get each other’s humor. Have each other’s back. There’s medical stuff that could happen tomorrow that would put an end to our bedroom shenanigans. It wouldn’t change the rest.[/quote]
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