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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you [/quote]

suck

Sorry, had problems with my phone when I started this message but wanted to make sure to finish it

Having sex, cuddling with him until he is sleepy and then switching beds would be much better than basically living separate lives where you go to your room at 8pm to read a book away from him[/quote]

Where did OP ever say above that she retreated to her room "at 8 p.m. to read a book away from him"? That's pretty specific, PP.

Projecting, maybe?

Where did she say that she retreats into her room at all? Maybe she does stay with him until she's actually ready to sleep. Maybe she doesn't. We don't know yet.

So you made a special effort to come back a second time to be ugly to her. Helpful. [/quote]

I was reiterating what this poster said:

[quote]Increase the frequency of sex and his fears might vanish. Also, be sure to cuddle each night even if no sex and don’t go to your bedroom until you are actually falling asleep. Don’t go there and read, watch tv, or futz around on your phone.[/quote]

And yes, op just came in to say she does pretty much do that.

Not trying to be mean, but women/wives need to understand that men/husbands put a high priority on being able to sleep in the same bed and you shouldn't give up on the idea so easily.[/quote]

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