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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op as a husband of a light sleeper I'm judging you harshly for thinking about divorce over this.

Try ear plugs, try different blankets, try putting pillows between you after he falls asleep, try sleeping apart only on certain nights[/quote]

NP. Seriously, f* you and your judgment. You obviously have no idea what real insomnia is like. It's not a couple nights of restless sleep because your blanket is too light or too heavy. Not getting enough sleep affects your health and quality of life the same way a chronic illness can. OP didn't say she was thinking of divorce, she said her husband was acting like it was a reason for divorce. Frankly, he sounds like a selfish baby.

OP treating your insomnia will be worthwhile whether or not it results in you sleeping in the same bed as your husband. I suggest you start there, with a therapist who specializes in sleep disorders and who can refer you to a doc to discuss meds as the two of you think is necessary. Once you are sleeping better and have a clearer head, you can start thinking about if their are modifications you can make to share a room with your husband again. And in the meantime he can decide how he wants to support you as you work on your medical condition of insomnia.[/quote]

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