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[quote=Anonymous]Part of life is learning to deal with unfairness, people who don't treat you well, and figuring out how to cope with this. I would do a few things. Be upfront about it. It is happening and everyone knows. Talk about it openly and how it feels. Your DS14 needs to get a better sense of what this is like for his brother. Find a way to laugh about it, yourselves when at home. Finding humor in difficult circumstances is a great way to cope. Call out grandparents. If they dish it out, dish it back at them. Point out rude and unfair behavior. Give your DS 15 some agency in this. If he doesn't want to visit them, he doesn't have to. What does he want? Let him lead.[/quote]
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