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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are obviously lots of issues here. If a guy said he was no longer attracted to his wife because she gained weight, he would get a lot of criticism. Reality is that attraction wanes for all kinds of reasons but given his immediate response was to want to divorce there is likely many complex factors at play.

Since neither of you want to be with the other and nothing major has happened, you should be able to separate pretty amicably. Find someone who is really health and fitness conscious.

I know two guys who really had gained weight due toot emotionally eating to deal with their marriage issues and when they got divorced they also then got very fit. The weight gain was just another symptoms of really unhealthy unhappy relationships.[/quote]

Yep.  I think OP is ignoring her role in this.  [b]The fact his immediate response was divorce is telling.[/b]  I'd say the same if the gender roles were reversed as well.[/quote]

Few men who have fun, fit wives who don't nag and put out let themselves go like that. [/quote]

NP. Don't underestimate the power of arrogance and denial. If he seriously thinks that nothing is wrong with his health, the comment would have hurt his pride a lot.[/quote]

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