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[quote=Anonymous]The good news is that this is a faux-MIL and not an actual MIL. If/when your FIL needs caregiving, unless he's given her power of attorney for health/finances, it will be your DH and his sibling that make the decisions. I suggest you have your DH and his sibling have a frank discussion with their father about ALL of this. It will take some delicacy but you have a legitimate concern that with POA (or a marriage), she could exclude you from your FIL's life if he is incapacitated. Instead of a hotel, could you get an AirBnB? when you visit? If so, you could get a bed/room for your FIL and you could hang out to your heart's content in a 'home-like' environment. [/quote]
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