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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes I feel my looks have something to do with it, although I’m a cute woman, pretty hair & eyes. I’m chubby and always have been. Saying that, i e dated some very good looking men but it never works out and I typically blame part of that to my chubbies. I’m not very athletic and I think that’s to blame some as well. Then there’s a part of me that thinks I give off the wrong vibes because most of the time the dating turns into a sex thing, FWB. I have a very outgoing personality and can be very flirtatious and I’ve been told I’m sexy. But I think that vibe destroys the actual relationship and makes it about sex? And then I think the only reason why the guy is interested in the chubby girl is for sex. I’m a hot mess! [/quote]

It’s not because you have sex. Maybe you just flirt with everyone and never really focus on one. If that is the case, people will think you are not interested in a relationship.[/quote]

I don't flirt when I am with someone -  i focus on them.  I think I give a vibe that makes men see me as just a FWB.[/quote]

I can say your descriptions right here about yourself do sound sexy.  Maybe work hard to make your next boyfriend feel like you are a true life "partner" - not saying you didn't in past, but my favorite girlfriends were the ones who made me feel like they had my back - and also the ones who strategically totally stroked my ego when I needed it.  You've already got the sex thing down, I think you can get into a great relationship.[/quote]

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